CHANGE YOUR FACE

Every personality has a face.  SMILE!  How do you see yourself?  What’s your real self- esteem quotient on a scale of 0 (low) – 10 (solid)?  Hopefully the face of your personality is not marred, twisted, inferior, ugly, or caustic.

The feelings and pictures you have about yourself form your self–image.  How you view yourself consists of both emotional feelings and mental pictures, this is your selfconcept.  What you see and feel about yourself will determine your relationship with other people and with God.  The Scripture statement is significant here as it brings the heart and mind together: “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” (Proverbs 23:7)

A sound and secure self–esteem is viable without arrogance or selfishness.  A healthy, godly self–image is essential to virtuous growth in character, personality and disposition.  In his book, “The Sensation of Being Somebody,” Dr. Maurice Wagner discusses three (3) basic components essential to a healthy self–image:

  1. A sense of belongingness, of being loved: you are loved; accepted; enjoyed; cared for.
  2. A sense of worth and value: you count; you have something to offer.
  3. A sense of being competent: you can do this task; you can cope with that situation; you are able to meet life.

You are somebody.  You belong to God and He Loves you so much.  You count. He gave Himself for you through Christ and you have something to offer.  Never underestimate your capability.  You are fit for the task.  As you believe in God, BELIEVE in yourself.  You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13).  Change you face!  SMILE. 

 

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DR. LEHMAN D. BATES, PASTOR